Transitioning to a life as you envision it can be hard; our goal is to support you. Our group facilitators and individual therapists are Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC). Working from a Person-Centered framework, Hard Road Counselling is focused on any number things you would like to change in your life. substance-use and addiction, feeling scared all the time, feeling down and hopeless, and/or seeing the world as a harsh and scary place.
Many physicians recommend treatments like Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), and/or Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT). We, at Hard Road Counselling, understand these perspectives, but as places to borrow useful things from.
For example, we can help you make a plan for your day-to-day life that involves creating awareness (using a Thought Record, traditionally more CBT), strategies for finding motivation to carry out your plan (learning Rolling with Resistance strategies, traditionally more MI), and learning other things to do when you get upset (practicing Distress Tolerance skills, traditionally more DBT).
However, we are more concerned with helping you to “go deeper” and heal traumas, and we believe techniques based on hearing and acknowledging your experience are more equipped to do that. We understand trauma to be anything that happened (or didn’t happen) that hurt and scared you.
Maybe someone was supposed to be there to be protect you, but you ended up feeling like they let you down and abandoned you when you really needed them. Maybe someone really hurt you when you trusted them to take of you. Maybe something really frightening happened and left the world looking like a scary place to live in.
We want to hear what happened to you and what is blocking you from being able to be who you want to be. We want to hear what you live with. We want to hear how brave you’ve been to face what scares and threatens you by yourself. And, if you’ll let us, we want to go to those dark, painful places with you, and find out what’s hurting there and what it needs to heal.